Everyone has a story

Everyone has a story; a story that is usually a poignant, painful experience or adversity or hardship they have gone through, lived through and survived.

We all want to share our story. Yet in a time where technology makes it easy for us to share every minutiae of our life digitally, where we can blog our story or tweet about it, why is there something so captivating and persuasive about sitting down with a person or people and sharing our story, face to face.

Perhaps it is inherent in us - storytelling has been around since the beginning of time.

Perhaps we share our story as a way of communicating who we are. It’s not about relaying facts and figures of an event but rather it’s about revealing the bits of ourselves that we know will leave us vulnerable but we do it anyway. Somehow we intuitively know that the listener(s) we choose to share our story with, will identify with some part of our experiences, that our story or bits of it will resonate with them, that it will connect us.

So, perhaps we tell our story to be understood.

When we share our story we instinctively highlight what is important to us, what the experience(s) meant to us and how it defines who we have become.

And perhaps sharing our story helps us make sense of our world and the life we live. With a receptive listener(s), our story prompts and encourages dialogue and discussion, with possibly new insights and different perspectives for everyone involved.

I deeply admire anyone who courageously shares their story, its not an easy thing to do and I continue to be inspired and humbled by the stories I hear.