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A gay Aspies tale - Low mood, anxiety and loneliness in the digital age
I’ve been struggling recently. Low mood and anxiety have felt overwhelming at times. As a gay man with Aspergers syndrome, I’m not...
Jul 22, 20214 min read


So how do you have sex?
I know most lesbians can relate to those uncomfortable moments when straight people ask questions like “So how do you have sex?” The 3...
Feb 27, 20212 min read

Reframing Valentine’s Day for Queers
February 14th, Valentine’s Day. A day where love is celebrated on a big scale with teddy bears, chocolates, Hallmark cards, romantic...
Feb 10, 20211 min read

Hope... in a sea of red flags
Some relationships just won’t work. But you want them to work so badly that you sometimes ignore the red flags waving at you in the...
Feb 1, 20212 min read

Outsourcing my self-worth led to a dead end.
We’re on day 13 of the New Year and 3rd lockdown and it’s rubbish weather. So I thought I’d write an uplifting/funny/happy blog this...
Jan 13, 20213 min read

Untangling those unlovable knots
Can you imagine the life we would have, the people we would be, if we stopped feeling undeserving, unlovable and unworthy? Let’s explore...
Jan 6, 20213 min read
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